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What Does the Bible Mean by ‘Love’?
Love is the greatest word in the Christian faith — and the most misused. The New Testament word, the Greek agape, is not mere feeling but self-giving devotion, defined by God at the cross.
The Three Strands the Word Holds Together
Strand 1God’s self-giving love
Agape is “love that chooses its object.” God showed it by giving His Son: “God so loved the world that He gave” (John 3:16); “God is love” (1 John 4:8). “We love Him because He first loved us” (1 John 4:19).
Strand 2Defined at the cross
“By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us” (1 John 3:16). Love “suffers long and is kind … bears all things … endures all things” (1 Corinthians 13) — action and character, not mere feeling.
Strand 3Commanded to all
“Love the Lord your God … and your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:37–39); “love one another as I have loved you” (John 13:34); even “love your enemies” (Matthew 5:44). Love “is the fulfillment of the law” (Romans 13:10).
What the Key Texts Say
| Passage | Emphasis | What it teaches |
|---|---|---|
| 1 John 4:8 | God is love | “He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.” |
| John 3:16 | God gave | “God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son.” |
| Romans 5:8 | While sinners | “God demonstrates His own love … while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” |
| 1 John 3:16 | Laid down His life | “By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us.” |
| 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 | What love is | “Love suffers long and is kind … bears all things … endures all things.” |
| John 13:34–35 | New commandment | “Love one another; as I have loved you … By this all will know you are My disciples.” |
| Matthew 22:37–39 | The great commands | “Love the Lord your God … and your neighbor as yourself.” |
| Matthew 5:44 | Even enemies | “Love your enemies, bless those who curse you … pray for those who persecute you.” |
| Romans 13:10 | Fulfills the law | “Love does no harm to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.” |
Two Common Misunderstandings
Love is not mainly a feeling. Agape is willed, self-giving action, shown supremely at the cross: “He laid down His life for us” (1 John 3:16); love “suffers long … bears all things” (1 Corinthians 13). It can be commanded because it is chosen, not merely felt.
Love is not sentiment that ignores truth or holiness. God’s love gave His Son to deal with sin (Romans 5:8); love “does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth” (1 Corinthians 13:6). To love is to will another’s true good, not to approve of all they do.
So, What Is Love?
Love (agape) is self-giving devotion that seeks the true good of another — God’s own nature, shown supremely in giving His Son. It is defined not by feeling but by the cross, described in 1 Corinthians 13, and commanded toward God, neighbor, and enemy. We love because He first loved us.
Sources & Notes Greek word study: agape (Strong’s G26), “love that chooses its object” — the self-giving, willed devotion that marks God’s own character and the Christian’s calling; the verb agapao (G25), “to love.” The New Testament reserves it for this love, distinct from philia (friendship), storge (natural affection), and eros (sexual love, which it does not use). See Thayer’s and W. E. Vine’s dictionaries; for depth, BDAG and the TDNT (Kittel) articles. Primary texts: 1 Corinthians 13; 1 John 4:7–21; John 3:16; Matthew 22:34–40. Scripture: quotations are taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved. This page explains how Scripture itself uses the word, tested against the apostolic pattern; it is a definition, not a brief for any one tradition’s system.
